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Rules for Modern-Day Beauty

Dear Beauty Reader,

Today’s woman knows the importance of putting her best face forward, from what she says, to what she wears, to how she takes on the day.

“Acting like a modern beauty is important to representing herself in the best light,” says etiquette expert Anna Post, the great-great granddaughter of Emily Post and current face of the Emily Post Institute.

That’s why Anna’s put the list of tips below to help women reveal their best selves, no matter the occasion.

Anna Post’s etiquette tips:

Look more luminous

Taking good care of your skin is the first step to acting like a modern beauty. Yet a new survey by Pond’s reveals that more than 40 percent of women do not wash their face every night before they go to bed. That means they are not removing make-up and other impurities that can clog pores and dull skin’s natural radiance, causing it to look less luminous.

Be perfectly punctual

“Fashionably late” is no longer in style. While it used to be a trademark of those in demand, in today’s busy world, it can be perceived as just plain rude. Regardless of the circumstance, whether it is an appointment for a haircut or a dinner date, it is important to always be on time. Being punctual remains a sign of respect and modern beauties have an edge by remembering this and setting themselves apart from the “sorry I’m late!” crowd.

Primp in private

While modern beauties should always be prepared for a beauty emergency, it is important not to primp in public. A quick dab of lipstick at the table with friends is okay, but do not bring out the brushes, pencils, floss or wands. Always take touch-ups to the ladies room when dining out for business.

Demonstrate social (media) graces

Every modern beauty has to deal with a bad day or unanticipated incident from time to time – long lines, flight delays, fashion mishaps – but no one likes a complainer. Keep it positive on social media. With so many professional contacts now having access to coworkers’ personal pages, it is smart to resist the urge to vent in public and confide in a close friend instead.

Date like a pro

When it comes to a first date, a modern beauty keeps her credit card discreetly at her fingertips. While in the past gentlemen were expected to pick up the bill, today’s woman should come ready to cover her half just in case. No love connection in sight? A friendly and clear “Thanks, but I’m not interested,” is the easiest way to politely let someone down. A modern beauty keeps it simple and short without a need for lengthy explanations.

Have a Youthful Day,
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[Ed. Note: Jackie Silver is the author of Aging Backwards: Secrets to Staying Young. She’s a dynamic and beautiful 50-something bombshell who looks half her age. She created “Aging Backwards” in 2006 to help empower women to look and feel younger than their actual age. Keep reading Ageless Beauty Secrets for more of Jackie’s best tips, tricks and secret weapons for stopping the effects of aging and improving the whole self – mind, body and spirit.]